Thomas "Gator" Gates

Thomas "Gator" Gates


Dates

May 17, 1950 - March 9, 2026

Obituary

Thomas “Gator” Gates, 75, of Mitchell, SD, passed away Monday, March 9, 2026, in Mitchell. Visitation will be Monday, March 16, from 5:00-7:00 PM at Bittner Funeral Chapel with a 6:30 PM prayer service.

Born in Mitchell, South Dakota, to Cliff and Rosemond (Callie) Gates, he built a life defined by hard work, family devotion, and infectious joy.

Growing up in the country outside Mitchell, he spent his childhood playing outdoors with his brother and sisters, surrounded by animals and the wide-open South Dakota landscape that would shape his love of the outdoors for a lifetime.

After graduating from Mitchell Senior High School, he began his career as a vending machine operator. With the entrepreneurial spirit and determination that defined him, he went on to found his own successful vending and amusement business—building something from the ground up through sheer grit and vision.

On June 12, 1971, he married the love of his life, Rita Agnitsch, in Mitchell. Their love story began at the roller rink, and together they built a beautiful life, raising three children: Tara, Jason, and Josh. His family grew to include seven grandchildren and three great-grandchildren, all of whom were the light of his life.

Known affectionately throughout the community as "Gator," he was a man who drew people to him with his warmth and humor. An avid outdoorsman, he found peace hunting in Murdo and West River, fishing, and tending his garden. He collected coins, restored antiques, and possessed the rare gift of being able to fix almost anything with his hands—a skill he shared generously with family and friends.

The sounds of Willie Nelson, Waylon Jennings, and Bob Seger often filled his home, the soundtrack to a life well-lived. But above all, he delighted in making his grandchildren smile and was never happier than when surrounded by family.

His great sense of humor, ready joke, and generous spirit made him beloved by all who knew him. He leaves behind a legacy of love, laughter, and a community that was better for having known him.

Tom is survived by his wife, Rita; children, Tara Gates of Kansas City, MO, Jason Gates of Las Vegas, NV, and Josh Gates of Sioux Falls; seven grandchildren and three great-grandchildren; and siblings, David Gates of Rapid City, Rita Conklin of Des Moines, IA, and Diane Gates of Rapid City.

He was preceded in death by his parents.


Visitation(s)

Date
Monday, March 16, 2026
Time
5:00 PM - 7:00 PM
Location
6:30 PM Prayer Service

Bittner Funeral Chapel
805 West Havens
Mitchell, SD 57301



Posted by Joe & Jan Schlimgen on March 24, 2026
Rita & loved ones, So sorry for your loss. May all the memories you created help in this difficult time.
Posted by Bunny olson on March 22, 2026
Rest in peace gator man.R.I.P.
Posted by Diane Schulz on March 22, 2026
Learned of Tom's passing today. The times we shared will forever live in my heart. God Bless you with His peace.
Posted by Joan Putzier Kerns on March 22, 2026
I am so sorry to hear this. We had many good conversations when he visited us in Murdo. My condolences.
Posted by Karen Huber on March 18, 2026
Best guy ever. So sorry.
Posted by Chris Jones on March 17, 2026
Rita, I am so sorry for your loss. Know that you are securely surrounded with prayers and loving thoughts. God bless.
Posted by Anne Wieger on March 16, 2026
Rita so sorry to hear about Tom. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the family.
Posted by Anne Wieger on March 16, 2026
Rita so sorry to hear about Tom. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the family.
Posted by Steve Splitt on March 16, 2026
Many memories were made with Gator. Been a couple of years since I last saw him. Now I really miss him. Farewell my friend
Posted by Tim L Fjellestad on March 16, 2026
Rita sorry for your loss
Posted by Karen (Herrmann) Meier on March 16, 2026
Rita, sending our deepest sympathy for your loss. Please know you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Posted by Wilbur Baldwin Jr on March 15, 2026
Rita so sorry to here about Tom. Sending prayers to you abd your family.
Posted by The Page family on March 15, 2026
Thoughts and prayers to the Gates family.
Posted by Roxie Ackman on March 15, 2026
Rita, I'm so sorry for your loss. You will be in my prayers.
Posted by Stephen Bauer on March 15, 2026
Rest in peace Tom. Rita I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers and sympathy to you and the family. May God bless you with many memories.
Posted by Dan Fergen on March 15, 2026
Gator was a classmate of mine when we attended Tech. From there we became friends. We had a ton of fun attending dances at Milltown and the rink. Forever a card. Loved the Man. Rest in peace buddy 🙏
Posted by Diane Horstman on March 15, 2026
Rita know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Sorry for your loss.
Posted by Rose Nesheim on March 15, 2026
So sorry for your loss Rita.
Posted by Tom mackey on March 14, 2026
Rita really sorry to hear of Tom’s passing, rest in peace Gator!
Posted by Didge Jemming on March 14, 2026
Rita sorry to hear about Gator he was one of a kind always enjoyed talking to him about old juke boxes and pinballs since Tom Brad SCHOEPF and myself were in the same business
Posted by Charolette Peterson on March 14, 2026
Rita and family so sorry for your loss!
Posted by Bethany Schlinger on March 14, 2026
Rest in peace, he will be greatly missed!
Posted by Roberta Davidson on March 14, 2026
So sorry for your loss. Gator was a great friend of mine and many others in the Mitchell community 😢
Posted by Katie Bloom on March 14, 2026
Rita, I am so sorry to learn of Tom's death. My thoughts are with you and family.
Posted by Bob & Sandi Young on March 13, 2026
Our deepest sympathies to the Gates family. Hugs
Posted by Jayne Rubendall on March 13, 2026
Dear Rita, I am so sorry for your loss. Sending hugs and prayers. Rest in peace Tom!
Posted by BRAD CROUCHER on March 12, 2026
Just like the Bible says, be quick to listen and slow to speak. Tom filled the shoes of a pretty good man! You will be missed
Posted by Barb Goldammer on March 12, 2026
Rita, I am so sorry for your loss! I am thinking about you and your family, you have my deepest sympathies!
Posted by Jayne Dreier on March 12, 2026
Sending love and prayers to Rita and family; also to all of Tom’s siblings. I have so many wonderful memories of our visits to Mitchell all through my childhood. So many memories of all the cousins sleeping in the bunk beds in Aunt Rosamond and Uncle Cliff’s basement.
Posted by Kevin Thurman on March 12, 2026
Rita and Loved Ones, deepest sympathy for Your loss. Your Family has touched a lot of lives with Your kindness and laughter.
Posted by Aunt Emily on March 12, 2026
I remember you as a little shaver sitting outside with your little birthday cake. What a sweet memory. And sweet when you were a grown up. Lucky you Rita for picking him as your partner. Take care! Will greatly miss him! Hugs!
Posted by Ernie & Debra Hohn on March 12, 2026
Our sympathies to the Gates family
Tell the rest of the gang…hello 🙏🏼
Posted by Gary and Mary Stadlman on March 12, 2026
Rita and family, Sending our condolences,God Bless and be with at this difficult time,
Posted by Ariel Anderson on March 12, 2026
Oh Gator, you will be missed, sir. Thanks for all the belly laughs while driving vans. You always had the funniest comebacks! My thoughts and prayers to your family.
Posted by Joseph Bosanco on March 12, 2026
You will be missed, Tom. He was fun hunting and joking with you. He was one of a kind
Posted by Lynn Metcalf on March 11, 2026
Dear Rita and family- so sorry to hear about the loss of Tom. Sending my sympathy and prayers.
Posted by Joan Finn on March 11, 2026
Rita and family. I’m so sorry for your loss. Tom was a good and kind man. Rest in peace.
Posted by Dennis and Lisa Marek on March 11, 2026
Rita our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this sad time with the passing of Tom. God Bless you all.
Posted by Althea Hofer on March 11, 2026
So sorry, Rita, for your loss. Tom was a sweetie. Coming from the farm entering high school, some were not kind. He was always kind
Posted by Deb Oftedahl on March 10, 2026
I’m so sorry Rita! You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers during this sad and difficult time. May God grant you peace.
Posted by Wanda Kobes on March 10, 2026
So sorry for this very sad loss of a great man !! Sending you all Big Hugs and Prayers !!! Thinking of all of you in this very hard time !!
Posted by Wanda Kobes on March 10, 2026
So sorry for this very sad loss of a great man !! Sending you all Big Hugs and Prayers !!! Thinking of all of you in this very hard time !!
Posted by Mary Ackman on March 10, 2026
Biggest hugs to all
So very sorry to see this.
Can you begin to imagine the rules being created above!
Posted by Karen Spelbring on March 10, 2026
Dearest Rita & family,
I am deeply sorry for your loss.
May God comfort you and give you strength at this difficult time.
Sending love, hugs and prayers. ❤️💙🤗🙏✝️
Posted by Arlene Baysinger on March 10, 2026
Great neighbor!!
Posted by Ron Grimsley on March 10, 2026
I lived next door to Tom and his family for more than 20 years. He was a helpful neighbor that became a friend. He was always willing to help, have some conversation and joke a little with my kids. Top notch guy! Rest in peace Gater!
Posted by Barb Dulaney on March 10, 2026
So sorry for your loss he was my cousin take care in Jesus name
Posted by Kimberly Moser Ross on March 10, 2026
Sending prayers for comfort and strength as you face the difficult days ahead. I am so profoundly grateful I was able see Tom at Uncle Wally's 94 birthday party ( Uncle Jim's too). What a wonderful kind man. My Mom and I were blessed to visit Mitchell and spend time with family making beautiful memories in addition to a taking a trip down memory lane.
Posted by Dan Kurtenbach on March 10, 2026
I remember Tom‘s whole face squinted up when he laughed. I remember that and the little shop of horrors, in the basement of their folk house out past the TV station where, in their youths, he and Dave were amateur taxidermists, trapping the creeks in the area,
Posted by Marian and Dave Gates on March 10, 2026
He was a good brother and brother in law. He lies with quiet strength but he also made us laugh. Earth lost a good one, but heaven gained a great one.
Posted by Lynnette Chamley Schilling on March 10, 2026
RIP Gator! You are going to be missed by many.....
Posted by charlie Prickett on March 10, 2026
avid sportsman, loved his hunting and fishing. all around good guy!
Posted by Bruce Livesay on March 9, 2026
Gods speed Tom !
Posted by john blasius on March 9, 2026
spent the wonderful decade of the 60s draging main and going to the dances! with tom and the good kids of mitchel' good guy, he will be missed!!!
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